For many men and couples, the world of Tantra remains shrouded in mystery. Often misconstrued as just another technique for "better sex," the truth is, it's so much more. When a friend brags about an exceptional encounter with a Tantra Goddess, or you hear that Tantra can amplify and prolong orgasms, curiosity piques. But why should you, as a man, venture into this enigmatic territory?

Tantra is a Paradigm Shift in the way men think about sex and having sex. It is very different from the portrayal of sex from porn, as most men think sex is like. Not that there is anything wrong with jumping into bed and having hot, fantastic sex! That is great! Nevertheless, this is different. Quite possibly, More Satisfying!

Tantra for men begins with slowing down, not having the urgent necessity of one’s ejaculation. This urgency ends up taking over the entire sexual conversation. Furthermore, his partner often ends up feeling pushed aside in his all-consuming drive for orgasm. The beauty of slowing down means his partner feels closer, more profound connection.

For many men and couples, the world of Tantra remains shrouded in mystery. Often misconstrued as just another technique for "better sex," the truth is, it's so much more. When a friend brags about an exceptional encounter with a Tantra Goddess, or you hear that Tantra can amplify and prolong orgasms, curiosity piques. But why should you, as a man, venture into this enigmatic territory?

Tantra is a Paradigm Shift in the way men think about sex and having sex. It is very different from the portrayal of sex from porn, as most men think sex is like. Not that there is anything wrong with jumping into bed and having hot, fantastic sex! That is great! Nevertheless, this is different. Quite possibly, More Satisfying!

Tantra for men begins with slowing down, not having the urgent necessity of one’s ejaculation. This urgency ends up taking over the entire sexual conversation. Furthermore, his partner often ends up feeling pushed aside in his all-consuming drive for orgasm. The beauty of slowing down means his partner feels closer, more profound connection.

When you switch from a me-first to a we-first approach, the sexual experience becomes more enriching for both. You no longer view the act as a sprint to your orgasm but as a shared journey of pleasure and connection.

The impact? Your partner feels more valued and less like an afterthought in your quest for sexual fulfillment. Try bringing her to a clitoral orgasm first, and then starting to play between both sexual bodies – flirting, nibbling, some penetration, back and forth, no rush, no goal.

Most men need to realize that women almost always come away from our sexual encounters, wanting more. Sometimes women wish the fun and pleasure could have lasted longer or that there could be more variety in the process than us just jumping on them and pumping away.

A man who is open to experimenting will find themselves switching their focus from having their ejaculation first to putting their sexual partner first. And then, they can slowly explore from that point onwards. Once the insatiable drive for his orgasm no longer consumes him, Every Time he has sex, he will find a deeper, more meaningful connection with his partner.

Most men need to realize that women almost always come away from our sexual encounters, wanting more. Sometimes women wish the fun and pleasure could have lasted longer or that there could be more variety in the process than us just jumping on them and pumping away.

A man who is open to experimenting will find themselves switching their focus from having their ejaculation first to putting their sexual partner first. And then, they can slowly explore from that point onwards. Once the insatiable drive for his orgasm no longer consumes him, Every Time he has sex, he will find a deeper, more meaningful connection with his partner.

In the Tantric realm, the terminology is far from mundane. The male organ isn't just a "cock" but a "Lingam," which translates to "Wand of Light."

Similarly, a woman's anatomy is not just a "vagina" but a "Yoni," meaning "Sacred Space."

This poetic language elevates the entire sexual experience to something sacred and sublime.

Women, too, have been conditioned to prioritize male pleasure. And while it's not entirely wrong to seek pleasure for your partner, the focus must also shift towards a mutual connection. Timing and open, honest communication are essential.

Approaching Tantra shouldn't be a critique of existing methods but a shared exploration towards deeper intimacy.

Ideally, we will approach the subject of Tantra together, partner to partner, as a team, with the mutual goal of experiencing a more profound closeness, intimacy, and spiritual growth. We both want the same things, and we want to have a lot of fun and intimacy while we grow into these things.

It might seem counterintuitive, but scheduling time for intimacy is crucial. Once that sacred time arrives, the focus should be solely on each other. Unplug from the digital world, maybe try some deep breath work or meditation to set the mood, and let the exploration begin.

There is no need to have an agenda in these special moments. There’s no need to even have sex if you find that you enjoy being close and intimate in another way. It can be a time for intimate communication, sharing your hearts with one another, or sitting facing each other breathing together.

It might seem counterintuitive, but scheduling time for intimacy is crucial. Once that sacred time arrives, the focus should be solely on each other. Unplug from the digital world, maybe try some deep breath work or meditation to set the mood, and let the exploration begin.

There is no need to have an agenda in these special moments. There’s no need to even have sex if you find that you enjoy being close and intimate in another way. It can be a time for intimate communication, sharing your hearts with one another, or sitting facing each other breathing together.

As you explore and move with each other, you might find that you both want to bring in sexual elements. One comfortable way to include sexual possibilities is to sit in the "Yab-Yum" position, where the woman sits atop the man's crossed legs or another favoured sitting position, which offers an intimate setting for deeper connection.

As you explore and move with each other, you might find that you both want to bring in sexual elements. One comfortable way to include sexual possibilities is to sit in the "Yab-Yum" position, where the woman sits atop the man's crossed legs or another favoured sitting position, which offers an intimate setting for deeper connection.

Once you are both comfortable in the Yab-Yum position, then you can spend some time simply breathing together. Or, you both might feel like having some Lip Play, and exploring kissing. The secret here is to stay connected with one another.

This is a time of intimacy and closeness with no other objective. Because there is no pressing agenda or goal, you have time to spend 10 minutes kissing and spontaneously exploring wherever kissing may lead you.

This is the time to pay close attention to the energy and not rush ahead and miss out on the best part...

The moment when you feel very, very close with your partner. All barriers are gone; there are no restrictions or conditions – only 100% trust and love between you and your partner. You are simply being and being together. This level of connection and acceptance from another human is deeply healing.

One of the best ways to slow down and prolong the pleasure is by playing in caressing and intimate ways. There is no need to rush headfirst into the finale. A man can feel free to ask to slow down if his orgasm is near. This is an excellent time to stop and love each other with your words and your eyes. Or change gears and sip some wine, play with some chocolate by kissing some into each others mouths or share some champagne, the possibilities are endless to your imagination.

As you both agree and plan on how you want to pursue this unique path, keep in mind one of the primary purposes is to create a time for you both to celebrate each other and dive deep into nourishing intimacy and closeness. It’s a time for laughter, for trying new things. A time for softness, slowing down, pure togetherness.

Tantra is about redefining intimacy, building a more profound connection, and nurturing a shared spiritual growth. So, why settle for ordinary when you can experience the extraordinary?

The moment when you feel very, very close with your partner. All barriers are gone; there are no restrictions or conditions – only 100% trust and love between you and your partner. You are simply being and being together. This level of connection and acceptance from another human is deeply healing.

One of the best ways to slow down and prolong the pleasure is by playing in caressing and intimate ways. There is no need to rush headfirst into the finale. A man can feel free to ask to slow down if his orgasm is near. This is an excellent time to stop and love each other with your words and your eyes. Or change gears and sip some wine, play with some chocolate by kissing some into each others mouths or share some champagne, the possibilities are endless to your imagination.

As you both agree and plan on how you want to pursue this unique path, keep in mind one of the primary purposes is to create a time for you both to celebrate each other and dive deep into nourishing intimacy and closeness. It’s a time for laughter, for trying new things. A time for softness, slowing down, pure togetherness.

Tantra is about redefining intimacy, building a more profound connection, and nurturing a shared spiritual growth. So, why settle for ordinary when you can experience the extraordinary?